19 June 2020

If Statues Teach History, What Lessons Will We Learn?

“If someone kidnapped your child and sold them, where would you want us to put the statue of that person?”

The words of this meme circling the internet should hit hard, should be obvious. It should be the mic drop to end all mic drops in the conversation about whether we should remove statues celebrating those who gladly engaged in and fought to maintain the oppression of Native and black Americans.

Yet, even here, the cries of dissent ring.

“That erases history!”

We absolutely must learn and remember history, but statues aren’t built to objectively tell history. Statues are built to commemorate, to celebrate. We don’t erect statues of Adolf Hitler, Osama bin Laden, or Charles Manson to ensure we don’t forget history. There will be no statue to COVID-19. You memorialize the victims, not the victimizers. Taking down a statue celebrating a racist who violently fought to maintain racism does not erase the history behind it. It is the bare minimum starting point in ending the celebration of those who don’t deserve to be celebrated. We can still have museums. We can still read books. 

Speaking of reading, you really should look into when and why most of the Confederate statues were built. Check out the History.com article “How the US Got So Many Confederate Monuments”:

Most of these monuments did not go up immediately after the war’s end in 1865. During that time, commemorative markers of the Civil War tended to be memorials that mourned soldiers who had died," says Mark Elliott, a history professor at University of North Carolina, Greensboro. 
Eventually they started to build [Confederate] monuments," he says. "The vast majority of them were built between the 1890s and 1950s, which matches up exactly with the era of Jim Crow segregation.” 

The history we learn, the history we teach -- with or without statues -- is far too often warped and whitewashed. White Americans have mastered erasing history and culture, hiding our atrocities, minimizing the recognition of contributions from those who aren’t white males, distorting the perspective. 

If you want to talk about concerns with erasing history, let’s make sure we put real discussion into the curriculum of our schools, and in society in general, about the thirty-five city blocks and three hundred lives that went up in flames in Tulsa’s Black Wall Street and the four years of internment camps we forced Japanese Americans to endure. Let’s look at the violent oppression of union organization. Let’s examine the forced, and then broken, treaties. Let’s look honestly at the massacres and the Trail of Tears, and who still sits on the twenty-dollar bill. 

Let’s discuss the forced Christian conversion of Native Americans, the imprisonment and withholding of food that punished Native Americans for following their own religious practices, and the massive removal of Native American children from their families and often from the tribe itself and into white homes. 

Or maybe Americans simply know less about these atrocities because they aren’t marbleized into a white man seated on a horse.

Let’s realize that the American Indian Religious Freedom Act and The Indian Child Welfare Act weren’t passed until my lifetime. 

Let’s, on this Juneteenth, stop pretending slavery ended immediately with the signing of the Emancipation Proclamation and that Civil Rights were fully gained when Rosa Parks could finally sit at the front of the bus.

Let’s recognize there was a loophole in the 13thamendment.

Let’s admit systemic racism still flagrantly flourishes. 

Let’s work to change it. Even if it means some statues of Columbus fall into a lake.

Let’s stop proclaiming the importance of statues of people from one hundred and fifty years ago at the same damn time we tell non-white Americans they shouldn’t be concerned about what happened a hundred and fifty years ago.

Dissent to the meme continues:

“No one alive had their children sold into (mainstream American) slavery!”

No one living today was a Confederate either.

You are literally demanding respect for your heritage while insisting others ignore theirs. 

Read that again.

Your heritage violently oppressed theirs. We try to be less violent and obvious in our oppression today, but we sure strive to maintain it, to celebrate it. 

When awarding Colin Kaepernick the Sports Illustrated Muhammad Ali Legacy Award, BeyoncĂ© expressed, “It’s been said that racism is so American, that when we protest racism, some assume we are protesting America.”

“If we take the statues down, when will it stop?! Do we change street names too?”

Dismantling centuries of systemic racism (that continues to thrive and that many of us continue to profit from, whether intentionally or not) is messy and hard and damn uncomfortable. But not nearly as uncomfortable as having that racism directed at you. Not as miserable as suffering beneath the heavy weight of racism’s knee.

Do we change street names? Sure, that's easy. We’ve changed street names many times in the past.

City names? We need to at least be willing to have that discussion. To think the names Custer, South Dakota, or Jackson, Mississippi, feel welcoming to all is to blindly bask in white privilege.

Change racist names of sports teams? Definitely.

We ask children to walk into schools literally named after people who would have considered them less than human. We tell students we care about them while celebrating those who very clearly didn’t, so I’m sorry if you feel our “history” would suffer if we changed school names. Our history sucked. It is time to build on compassion and justice, not blind allegiance to things that make us comfortable.

Pause your defensiveness and truly stop to think, to feel, to attempt to understand.

If your child was kidnapped, sold, raped, and murdered, and a statue was built honoring the killer, would you want your descendants to just accept the statue? 

To have to attend schools named after this oppressor?

Would you want our society celebrating holidays in their honor? 

Or would you want those statues, and the mindset that still celebrates and defends them, toppled to the ground?

There is a vast difference between remembering our racist past (and present) and celebrating it with popcorn and confetti.


19 Jun 2020






18 June 2020

"All Lives Matter" is Just Racism in a Fancy Tie

Your options are:

Black Lives Matter

- or -

Black Lives Don’t Matter


You can dress it up in whatever phrasing helps you to sleep at night and pray on Sunday, but that’s still what you’re saying when you dismiss the first option. And the world is listening.


18 Jun 2020


16 June 2020

Artificial Oppression Obsession

A black stormtrooper 
has got me all stressed
Somebody help me,
I’m being oppressed!

On the card in the mail,
“Happy Holidays” was expressed
I can’t believe it,
I’m being oppressed!

I heard someone speak Spanish
and now I’m depressed
When will it stop?!
I’m being oppressed!

Wearing a mask
makes me distressed
Fucking Costco
has me oppressed!

I fix women’s words
when they’re a little messed
Mansplaining, they called it
I’m being oppressed!

I ask for naked pics
when I friend request
They dare to block me,
I’m being oppressed! 

They shout “me too”
when I molest
Like that’s even fair?!
I’m being oppressed!

Twenty-six rifles
strapped across my chest
A background check?!
I’m being oppressed!

Forced to bake a cake for a couple 
I didn’t want to be blessed
Oh, how I suffer!
I’m being oppressed!

For Straight Pride Parade,
I got all dressed
Nobody came,
I’m being oppressed! 

The confederate flag,
my heritage professed,
banned at NASCAR?!
I’m being oppressed!

I only watch Fox News,
they’re just the best,
and they all agree
I’m being oppressed!

For White History Month
I continue to press
but they refuse,
I’m being oppressed!

I said hi to a black man
at our church as a guest
so I can’t be racist,
I’m being oppressed!

I shout “all lives matter” 
at your dumb protest,
I’m the one 
who’s being oppressed!


07 June 2020

I Guess All Amendments Didn’t Matter

After every mass shooting
since the tragedy at Columbine,
I hear the same damn 
automatic recording
escaping your lips

“Don’t punish  
responsible gun owners!”

You insist any meager
attempts at gun regulation
infringe upon your rights,
no matter how many
children lie beneath the rubble

The price of freedom,
the smoking gun

Yet now, as the president
calls for those guns 
to be turned on protestors,
enraged at the actions of a few,
I hear not your vocal defense
of the constitutional rights 
of the responsible majority

only your nods of agreement 
or your chilling silence

Could it be that you value
windows and buildings
above the lives of the children
forced into lockdown drills 
inside our schools? 

Or is your devotion 
to constitutional rights
limited to the amendment 
that came immediately after the first?


4 Jun 2020

06 June 2020

It Was Long Past Time to Prune the Tree

A few bad apples, 
they said

Apples laced with poison,
apples that kill

Apples left 
in the barrel,
long after we 
noticed their rot

Protected by the other apples,
who rally around them,
declaring poison is
standard apple procedure

Protected by 
qualified apple immunity 
to the laws of the land

Protected by a society
that too often looked away,
or found a flaw with
how the victim chewed
once upon the past,

or simply disliked
the color of their teeth

The poison 
lingering, festering,
dripping onto the 
apples below,
waiting for the next 
unsuspecting bite

The other apples claim
the bad ones wouldn’t
have killed if you had
been in better health

You should have been able 
to withstand the poison


04 June 2020

Your Signs Hurt My Senses

To my neighbor 
with the nine Trump signs
lining your driveway,

I see you’ve been on board
with the re-election campaign
since he first lost the popular vote,

eagerly anticipating
how many more pussies
there were yet to grab

I see your signs as a wall,
a feeble attempt to keep away
those you’ve never met,
yet still somehow despise

I see these signs 
forming the cage
surrounding and trapping
those naĂŻve or hopeful enough 
to think they could seek
refuge in a country
that treated them 
slightly less shitty
than the one they
were running from

I see them as a wall
around a uterus
you have tried 
to seize from its owner

I see your signs as a cry
to open the beaches,
letting us swim with sharks,
our torn flesh feeding
the unquenchable economy

My closed car windows 
don’t prevent my ears
from hearing your
regurgitated epithets of
“I’m not racist, but…”
 and “all lives matter” 

and I imagine the 
mental gymnastics 
you must practice 
each morning with 
unfaltering dedication 
to allow yourself 
to believe your sincerity 
in either claim

Your signs scream with
the piercing pops of gunshots
and the rumble of tanks,
a war you have declared
to silence the protests 
against an injustice
you pretend does 
not even exist

I hear your 
boastful proclamations 
that facts are irrelevant 
and science is a liberal plot
you’re too smart
to fall for

I smell the sexism,
the racism, 
the entitlement,
and the stench
is more than 
I can handle

Not wanting to get
close enough to touch, 
I quickly make the turn 
towards the respite 
of my own home,
with the poor taste
still lingering in my mouth


25 May 2020
stanza added 3 Jun 2020

03 June 2020

Kickball and Brimstone

We line the recess fence,
metaphorical lambs 
being led to what I hope 
is only metaphorical slaughter

The whispers begin,
even before the captains
commence the long-winded
explanation of rules

If you kick the ball
with the wrong foot,
Jerry claims,
God boots you off
his team immediately

(I didn’t even know
there was a wrong foot)

They say there was a time, 
adds Pearl, 
God drowned his whole team
for not listening, 
except for just one family 
and a couple giraffes

(The stakes were higher
than I thought)

Satan starts with his rules
“Eh. Whatever.”

(Oh, or maybe not)

But God pulls out a book
that brings groans 
from its sheer size

(I got lost in the begats
and admittedly tuned out
for a time)

I love you, 
but if you don’t do it right,
God’s deep voice demanded,
your body will be kept alive 
and scorched for eternity

(Somehow I wasn’t feeling
all warm and fuzzy)

Satan’s eyes gleamed
at the burning part

(A bunch of pyromaniacs)

I decided I didn’t want 
to play after all


30 Jun 2020