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26 January 2021

All Theft Matters

 

I want to point out to the Stop the Steal folks that someone stole my backpack when I was in college and I think it is really insensitive to try to highlight one theft while not acknowledging all theft. Why single your theft out, like my theft didn’t matter? So maybe your sign should read Stop Stealing or something so I don’t feel left out.

 

#AllTheftMatters

26 July 2020

Guesswork

It seems the very same people who won’t wear a mask because “God will protect me from COVID,” think we need a military budget that dwarfs the rest of the world, a wall to protect us from Mexicans, and riot gear to protect us from equality. I guess God only deals in infectious diseases.

Some of y’all think you need to listen and study your religion every single week, spending countless hours examining how you can improve in your thoughts and actions. Yet you think you already inherently know all about racism, something you’ve never actually taken the time to study in any depth, and any examination or self-reflection is unnecessary. Or you think the racism this country was founded on and consistently throughout its history fought to maintain just magically disappeared somewhere along the way. 

I guess you do believe in miracles.


15 Jun 2020

08 July 2020

Meddling, Malevolent Marmots

“The marmot is believed to have caused the 1911 pneumonic plague epidemic,” the CNN article reads.

Not “human trapping, killing, and widespread trading of the marmot’s fur infected thousands.” Nope. Just like “humans were minding our own damn business and the evil fucking marmots infected us.”

Humans won’t take the blame for anything.

We blame cows for going mad when we force them into cannibalism.

We blame deer and rabbits because they, like us, enjoy nibbling on plants, while we blame wolves and coyotes for enjoying the taste of animal flesh. How dare they also know hunger!

Even when they avoid veggies and farmed animals, desiring only the scraps we’ve already discarded, we blame raccoons for eating our trash.

We blame animals because they don’t perfectly preserve our lawns and golf courses. You know, like how we perfectly preserve their forests and grasslands.

We blame certain cats for our bad luck.

We blame dogs for eating our homework. 

We even blame a snake for making an apple enticing.

We blame cows for their farts without blaming ourselves for the mass breeding that puts them here.

We blame the deer for “hitting” our cars, though we were the ones in motion.

No self-examination. 

No acceptance of responsibility. 

Always their fault.

We are like Jeffrey Dahmer blaming our victim for the food poisoning.


8 Jul 2020

19 June 2020

If Statues Teach History, What Lessons Will We Learn?

“If someone kidnapped your child and sold them, where would you want us to put the statue of that person?”

The words of this meme circling the internet should hit hard, should be obvious. It should be the mic drop to end all mic drops in the conversation about whether we should remove statues celebrating those who gladly engaged in and fought to maintain the oppression of Native and black Americans.

Yet, even here, the cries of dissent ring.

“That erases history!”

We absolutely must learn and remember history, but statues aren’t built to objectively tell history. Statues are built to commemorate, to celebrate. We don’t erect statues of Adolf Hitler, Osama bin Laden, or Charles Manson to ensure we don’t forget history. There will be no statue to COVID-19. You memorialize the victims, not the victimizers. Taking down a statue celebrating a racist who violently fought to maintain racism does not erase the history behind it. It is the bare minimum starting point in ending the celebration of those who don’t deserve to be celebrated. We can still have museums. We can still read books. 

Speaking of reading, you really should look into when and why most of the Confederate statues were built. Check out the History.com article “How the US Got So Many Confederate Monuments”:

Most of these monuments did not go up immediately after the war’s end in 1865. During that time, commemorative markers of the Civil War tended to be memorials that mourned soldiers who had died," says Mark Elliott, a history professor at University of North Carolina, Greensboro. 
Eventually they started to build [Confederate] monuments," he says. "The vast majority of them were built between the 1890s and 1950s, which matches up exactly with the era of Jim Crow segregation.” 

The history we learn, the history we teach -- with or without statues -- is far too often warped and whitewashed. White Americans have mastered erasing history and culture, hiding our atrocities, minimizing the recognition of contributions from those who aren’t white males, distorting the perspective. 

If you want to talk about concerns with erasing history, let’s make sure we put real discussion into the curriculum of our schools, and in society in general, about the thirty-five city blocks and three hundred lives that went up in flames in Tulsa’s Black Wall Street and the four years of internment camps we forced Japanese Americans to endure. Let’s look at the violent oppression of union organization. Let’s examine the forced, and then broken, treaties. Let’s look honestly at the massacres and the Trail of Tears, and who still sits on the twenty-dollar bill. 

Let’s discuss the forced Christian conversion of Native Americans, the imprisonment and withholding of food that punished Native Americans for following their own religious practices, and the massive removal of Native American children from their families and often from the tribe itself and into white homes. 

Or maybe Americans simply know less about these atrocities because they aren’t marbleized into a white man seated on a horse.

Let’s realize that the American Indian Religious Freedom Act and The Indian Child Welfare Act weren’t passed until my lifetime. 

Let’s, on this Juneteenth, stop pretending slavery ended immediately with the signing of the Emancipation Proclamation and that Civil Rights were fully gained when Rosa Parks could finally sit at the front of the bus.

Let’s recognize there was a loophole in the 13thamendment.

Let’s admit systemic racism still flagrantly flourishes. 

Let’s work to change it. Even if it means some statues of Columbus fall into a lake.

Let’s stop proclaiming the importance of statues of people from one hundred and fifty years ago at the same damn time we tell non-white Americans they shouldn’t be concerned about what happened a hundred and fifty years ago.

Dissent to the meme continues:

“No one alive had their children sold into (mainstream American) slavery!”

No one living today was a Confederate either.

You are literally demanding respect for your heritage while insisting others ignore theirs. 

Read that again.

Your heritage violently oppressed theirs. We try to be less violent and obvious in our oppression today, but we sure strive to maintain it, to celebrate it. 

When awarding Colin Kaepernick the Sports Illustrated Muhammad Ali Legacy Award, BeyoncĂ© expressed, “It’s been said that racism is so American, that when we protest racism, some assume we are protesting America.”

“If we take the statues down, when will it stop?! Do we change street names too?”

Dismantling centuries of systemic racism (that continues to thrive and that many of us continue to profit from, whether intentionally or not) is messy and hard and damn uncomfortable. But not nearly as uncomfortable as having that racism directed at you. Not as miserable as suffering beneath the heavy weight of racism’s knee.

Do we change street names? Sure, that's easy. We’ve changed street names many times in the past.

City names? We need to at least be willing to have that discussion. To think the names Custer, South Dakota, or Jackson, Mississippi, feel welcoming to all is to blindly bask in white privilege.

Change racist names of sports teams? Definitely.

We ask children to walk into schools literally named after people who would have considered them less than human. We tell students we care about them while celebrating those who very clearly didn’t, so I’m sorry if you feel our “history” would suffer if we changed school names. Our history sucked. It is time to build on compassion and justice, not blind allegiance to things that make us comfortable.

Pause your defensiveness and truly stop to think, to feel, to attempt to understand.

If your child was kidnapped, sold, raped, and murdered, and a statue was built honoring the killer, would you want your descendants to just accept the statue? 

To have to attend schools named after this oppressor?

Would you want our society celebrating holidays in their honor? 

Or would you want those statues, and the mindset that still celebrates and defends them, toppled to the ground?

There is a vast difference between remembering our racist past (and present) and celebrating it with popcorn and confetti.


19 Jun 2020






18 June 2020

"All Lives Matter" is Just Racism in a Fancy Tie

Your options are:

Black Lives Matter

- or -

Black Lives Don’t Matter


You can dress it up in whatever phrasing helps you to sleep at night and pray on Sunday, but that’s still what you’re saying when you dismiss the first option. And the world is listening.


18 Jun 2020


01 June 2020

A Slip of the Tongue

It bothers me when people try to claim that not being racist is a superior ethical choice. Wait, I mean, it bothers me when people try to claim that not being sexist is a superior ethical choice. No, not that either. It bothers me when people claim that not being homophobic or transphobic is a superior ethical choice. Wait. I keep messing up. It bothers me that people try to claim that not intentionally harming animals is a superior ethical choice. Yep. That one. That’s what I mean. Says the progressive.


28 Jan 2020

29 May 2020

When Nothing Else Made You Listen

If you said not to protest “like that” when there were repeated peaceful protests…

If you ignored or denied the reasons why the peaceful protests were happening, ensuring they were not addressed and voices were not heard…

If you are condemning looting louder than you are condemning the murder of George Floyd...

If you are mourning the loss of store windows more than the loss of a life...

If you are not enraged that the murderer, captured on camera, still roams the streets a free man…

… you are part of the problem.


Yes, there are better solutions. And we have failed at them every time.


28 May 2020

Whether You Stepped on This Train Intentionally or Not, You Can’t Deny the Motion

There’s I’m going to push my knee into your neck, on camera, with my hands in my pockets, until you die racism.

There’s I’m going to defend what he just did as standard practice racism.

There’s I’m going to call the cops hoping they do that to you too racism.

There’s I’m going to look the other way because it doesn’t affect me racism.

There’s I use racial slurs (perhaps just at home) and fly confederate flags racism.

There’s I can’t be racist because I have a black friend racism.

There’s I don’t see race (so I can’t see racism) racism.

There’s I’m okay voting for a racist because I think he’s good for the economy racism.

There’s I don’t think he’s a racist because I’m okay with all the (racist) things he says racism.

There’s I don’t want to be racist, but I was born white in a country built on systemic racism that never went away, it was just forced into adjustments, and I’m not aware enough or willing to do the work to examine it racism.

There’s This list is bullshit, I’m not racist racism.

There’s I don’t want to be racist but I was born white in a country built on systemic racism that still infects every system and I am working to examine and challenge the internalized messages that have been surrounding me my whole life and questioning how we can do better; I realize racism exists, even inside me, and I don’t want it to, so I’m alert and listening and trying as best I can to remove it.

White folks, you are somewhere on this list, and if you aren’t in the last category, you’re in the wrong place.


28 May 2020

07 February 2020

Making God in Our Image

The Bible claims God created mankind in his image. Regardless of your belief, what seems extremely evident is that we have created him in ours. We have molded him into who we see in ourselves and who we want him to be. Through depictions of God as an old white man to depictions of his son as the only Middle Eastern white man of his day. I have heard people viewing a depiction of a God of color laugh or condescendingly remark “of course they would want to think of him as they are,” without a hint of recognition of history, geography, or self-awareness.

We want God to bless our country, as though somehow we rank at the top of God’s top ten list of favorite countries. We want God to help us pass a math test, or guide a favorite sports team to victory. We celebrate someone surviving a dangerous accident, claiming the hands of God reached out to save them, while neglecting to examine the reality that were this true, God evidently deemed many others unworthy of his saving grace. We even want God to support our hatred and we’ve convinced ourselves that he actually does.

I am not Christian, nor any other faith, but I grew up Christian and I can speak to my own understandingand interpretation of Christianity. Jesus was all about love--loving our neighbor, loving our enemy. Love, even when it was hard. Even when it was uncomfortable. Love. Jesus was a rebel who stood up against corruption, who spoke up for those whom society looked down upon. Who cared about the less fortunate, the poor, the sick, the needy, the stranger. His love had no geographical or societal bounds. No exclusion for skin color. No minimum salary. 

Fear, hatred, and xenophobia were not the marks of the Jesus I learned about. But those things rear their ugly heads all too often, under the proclaimed safety net of Christian beliefs. Over and over, too many Christians neglect or mock or attack the immigrant, the Muslim, the person of color, the homosexual, the transsexual, even doing so while specifically citing their religious belief as a basis for their verbal, or even physical, attacks. 

They have molded their faith to fit their hatred. 

The reason so many Christians speak out against homosexuality is not Biblical and it is not complicated. It is because they don’t like homosexuality. Many use religion as a justification for their hatred and disgust. If these words and actions were because they believed every word of the Bible, and every infraction they saw in the Bible, equally without bias, without contemplation, then there would be lots of “Jesus hates people who eat shellfish” protests outside Red Lobster. Christians would be protesting Kohl’s for their inclusion of clothing from more than one fabric. They would demand women were silent in church, and certainly not allowed to become pastors. But these, rightly so, are not their demands. Their "righteous wrath" does not land here.

People who covet their neighbor’s wife, tell lies, steal, are greedy, or work on the Sabbath aren’t equally ostracized from the church, even though those all made the big ten. In fact, Christians – to an alarmingly large degree – support a president who has broken and continues to break all five of those commandments, in addition to shredding all boundaries of human kindness, compassion, and decency.

No, the focus on homosexuality is not because of a perceived Biblical basis, it is precisely because these people don’t like homosexuality. It creeps them out. It disgusts them. It seems weird and wrong to them so they justify their disgust, their hate, their attacks on personal freedom and rights. The protests against homosexuality are not from a place of love, but from a much darker place. 

I’m not here to tell anyone what to believe. If someone builds their faith around love, if love for their neighbor doesn’t end with just the neighbors who look like them, pray like them, and love like them, then we will likely get along just fine. If, however, they have molded their religion to justify hating others, taking away someone’s rights or freedoms, or separating them from their parents as they seek asylum, then that isn’t their religion talking. It is just bigotry behind a mask.



23 Jan 2020

06 February 2020

A Spoonful of Dogfighting Helps the Racism Go Round

We can’t just talk about racism when we have impeccable examples of character. You didn’t need the exemplary reputation of Jackie Robinson to deserve to play baseball. You didn’t need the innocence of a six-year-old to deserve to walk into a goddamn school. We can’t only talk about racism when you have glaring victims like the Central Park Five. You are allowed to sell cigarettes without a license and not expect to be killed. You can even cause harm, horrible harm, and it is still not the right time to be silent. Regardless of the crime, racism is not a just punishment. 

We can’t concern ourselves with racism only when the victims are clearly innocent. We need to look at racism towards the guilty as well. We need to examine cases where laws are broken and ethical boundaries are crossed. We need to look at who gets beaten for a traffic violation and who gets to grab a burger after a mass killing. We need to consider who sits in cages at our borders as our government steals their children. We need to look at the inequality in how laws are made and how they are enforced. And then, yes, we need to look at ourselves. At how we react. At what we say. At what we think. 

Because of how vile Michael Vick’s actions were, and how universally we abhor violence towards the particular animals in question, it offers us a chance to examine how hatred can intensify and magnify. How, as a nation, our unwillingness to forgive black men is a problem. It gives us a chance to examine both a court system and a system of public opinion that is unjust in how it hands out punishments, and whether even after those punishments are served, we ever allow a chance for redemption. 

I shared the Medium.com article, “It’s Time We Talk About America’s Inability to Forgive Black Men,” and the overwhelming commenter response was, “No, it isn’t!” 

31 January 2020

The Obituary of Checks and Balances

Checks and Balances, age 232, departed this life and went to be with its makers on January 31, 2020. After suffering from poor health for years, Checks and Balances was found dead on the senate floor. Photographs show a knife in its back, which many witnesses were willing to corroborate but their testimony was declined as they were told the knife did not exist. Preceded in death by its beloved spouse, the late Integrity, and their children, Facts and Evidence, Checks and Balances is survived by four remaining children, Greed, Corruption, Indifference, and Party Over Country. In lieu of flowers, the bereaved ask that you send votes. Services will be held November 3rd for those who wish to pay their respects to the dearly departed. 



31 Jan 2020

30 January 2020

I’ll Take "White Fragility" for 600, Alex

White people, while adamantly proclaiming their lack of personal racism, completely lose their shit when they think someone might have just called them a racist.

And, I know, your brain has already flagged my first line, vehemently protesting that I didn’t make the statement conditional.

“Not all white people,” you shout.

As we always do, anytime we are challenged. 

The deflection allows us to kick back in our comfort, convinced we are never personally the problem. It is always someone else. 

Racism isn’t lying in wait, hoping someone comes along to flip the “I am racist” switch so it can pounce freely back from the 1960s, the time a lot of white Americans blindly think it somehow died. We killed King, but we eventually gave you a day off work, so racism must be a relic banished to the brief mentions in history books.

We are immune, we say. Although we live in a country that only reluctantly, through years of bloodshed, decided owning other humans should be frowned upon. A country that even then, when forced to abandon slavery, only shifted our racism. To segregation, lynching, voter suppression, gerrymandering, racial profiling, prisons. 

How can we grow in this country, as white people, and think our work is done? That we somehow avoid racism with our good intentions, like a backpack full of kryptonite that keeps it from coming within arm’s reach. That we should never be questioned. That we can never improve. There is no racist bone in our bodies, we contend, in a country built on the murdered bones of those whose bodies held a different hue.

Of course, we claim, history and culture hold no influence over us. No subtleties have worked their way unknowingly into the way we interact with the world. 

If we truly want to be anti-racist, it takes more than good intentions. It takes effort and examination, and that is often uncomfortable. And if we are called out on something we say, our first response cannot be spewing hateful words to show them how wrong they are that we aren’t a perfect person.

Our first response has to be to seek to understand how our actions or words could have appeared problematic, despite our intentions.

If we have built protective walls blocking any chance for self-examination, then we will end up as woke as Garfield
…after three pans of lasagna.


30 Jan 2020

01 October 2019

This Kneeling On Their Knees Crap

If only these football players would have voiced their concerns respectfully like their president does. If only they told the "weak," "ineffective" "so-called" judicial system that they were "the founder of ISIS” and a “disaster” when it comes to prosecuting police officers for killing black men. If only they would have called cops "losers" and said "they're rapists, and some, they assume, are good people." If only they were yelling "fake cops” and screaming how we need to get those "sons of bitches" off the force. I mean, if they would have shown some damn respect like that, instead of this quietly kneeling on their knees crap, then maybe we would have listened to their complaints…


1 Oct 2017

15 September 2019

Widening the Recall

You know how when they discover that a car part isn’t working how they envisioned, or has some major design flaw, and people are dying or in great danger, they are forced to do a recall?

Yeah, that with AK-47s and AR-15s.


14 Sep 2019

11 September 2019

You’re Not Being Pushed Away From Compassion, You’re Choosing to Run

Of course vegans are passionate. Of course vegans are frustrated. Of course vegans speak out. 

And yes, that makes people uncomfortable.

We reevaluated the ways our culture taught us to thoughtlessly and repeatedly use, abuse, and kill animals. We learned the extent of the environmental destruction from this industry and decided we still kind of want a planet to live on. Now we ask, beg, and plead for you to do likewise: to examine your impacts and not just blindly follow the harm your culture has taught you. 

And most of you ignore us. Many even mock us. Simply for caring. 

But through the mocking, through the dismissal and the frustration, we speak anyway. It shouldn’t be surprising that, for some of us, this comes off as anger at your refusal to stop the harm you are causing. And so, on top of being ignored and ridiculed for our choices, we are collectively viewed as being pushy or preachy. And sure, some of us are, because it is hard to sit quietly and watch the unrelenting outrage taking place. 

But trust me, some of you think we are pushy just for existing.

People do not like thinking their choices are wrong or harmful. Human nature makes self-examination of any perceived flaws uncomfortable. Even stating you are vegan often brings defensiveness from a meat eater. When choices are ethically different, you either have to defend your choices or dismiss the other position, even within your own head. And it is easier to dismiss. To think we are unreasonable. To think we are silly, angry, or pushy. 

The strangest part is that this push to quiet us, to calm us, comes from the progressives, the same ones who shout loudly for other social justice issues. The ones we stand with in our shared quests for justice and equality.

We wouldn’t demand subtle politeness in our struggle for equal rights. We don’t tell people standing up against sexism that they should be less bold or they’ll turn people away from the cause. We don’t ask those who fight for LGBTQ rights to be calm and gentle and wait for gradual transitions to acceptance. 

Yet, when it comes to veganism, we are told to be calm and quiet, while millions die every hour.

We wouldn’t ask for compromise in these fights for justice, past or present.

Would we have been content if half of the slaves were set free? Perhaps we would have celebrated allowing only one-third of women to vote? Maybe people could be slightly less sexist, when the mood strikes. Perhaps they could not harass on Wednesdays (that’s better than harassing every day, right?). Maybe they could bake cupcakes for a gay couple instead of a wedding cake, or issue a civil union license if the idea of marriage bothers them. Maybe we could agree to have only one child separated per family at the border.

If we would not accept these policies of compromise on justice and equality, why would you expect someone else to accept compromise in their struggles for justice just because the victims aren’t important to you? Why should vegans be content with partial gains, a slight reduction in your harm? Why can’t we simply say that causing unnecessary harm is wrong, without your claiming we are elitist for believing our opinion is the right one? 

When has causing unnecessary harm to others been the right decision? Sure, there are times it has been legal, but when has it ever been right?

We are allowed to think it is wrong to kill animals. We don’t have to legitimize your claim that it is fine to kill them, that it is your “personal choice.”

We know we are “right” in believing one shouldn’t be a racist, sexist, homophobic, anti-immigrant asshole, even if one can make the “personal choice” to be exactly that. We don’t have to whisper our dissent. We don’t have to say “well maybe you could consider not doing that so much, pretty please.” We can loudly and proudly support the rights and lives of all humans. We should be able to do so for non-humans as well.

Yelling is certainly not my preferred method of discussion and awareness. And I agree there are more effective methods, but subtle hints are too easy for you to ignore and lives are literally on the line.

While there are some facts meat eaters might truly not know (the rainforest destruction, the pollution, the greenhouse gas emissions, the shrinkage of the food supply), it is hard to say someone (beyond the age of maybe eight) doesn’t know they are killing animals to eat them. 

The most frustrating part about being vegan isn’t having to inform people of the harm that comes from their choices but that even when people are informed, most of them still have no interest in making changes. 

The only reason people claim they won’t go vegan “because vegans are pushy” is because they didn’t want to be vegan in the first place. It is an excuse to avoid examining the argument so they can continue guilt-free with their current choices.

Male infant circumcision, like meat eating, has been a cultural norm, widely accepted by the majority of the population for years. But there certainly are, and have been, dissenters. If someone was standing outside a hospital yelling that circumcision was cruel and unnecessary and the right choice was to not circumcise your child, no one would think, “Well, I’m definitely circumcising my baby now because this guy is pushy.” Maybe we would wonder what the concern was, how harm could be involved with this choice. Maybe we wouldn’t want to learn from the man who was yelling. Maybe we wouldn’t care to hang out with him at pot-lucks. But we might want to know so we could come to our own conclusions. So we use the internet and/or get input from trusted friends or professionals and make our own informed decision. But we don’t make the choice in direct opposition to the guy screaming his head off, just because we found him rude.

People aren’t joining a vegan cult or a vegan church. They don’t have to socialize with vegans. We’re just asking that they choose some rice and beans and cashews and clementines and save some animals, and maybe still save the planet too. 

Sure, I’ll still offer you love. I’ll try to speak with kindness and understanding. I’ll try to remember that I too once thought differently, but that doesn’t mean I have to accept your choice to cause harm to others. I have the right to dissent, with or without your blessing.

Whether or not you want to listen, whether or not your sensibilities are offended, whether we are polite or rude, and whether we are whispering or shouting, it’s still the right choice. Because your choice isn’t personal when it has victims.


11 Sep 2019

This is a response to the "vegans are pushy" responses to this amazing NYT article: Stop Mocking Vegans

09 September 2019

All Those Gutter Balls

When 45 claims he'll be remembered for his great speeches, he does realize we've heard him speak, right? It's one thing to brag that you're rock solid at your bowling game when no one has ever seen you roll. But when the whole nation has watched all your gutter balls...


8 Sep 2018

04 August 2019

When Mitch Met Moscow

Trump: “Crooked Hillary!”
Mitch …

Trump: “Low-IQ Maxine Waters!”
Mitch…

Trump: “Pocahontas!”
Mitch: “You know how the president likes to give nicknames to people”

Trump: “They should go back to where they came from!”
Mitch: "The president is not a racist"

Trump crowd: “Send her back!”
Mitch: “(Trump’s) right (about) the squad wanting to turn us into a socialist country”

Morning Show Host: “Moscow Mitch”
Mitch: “It is shameful to imply that policy disagreements make the other side unpatriotic”

Now you don’t like it?! When the name calling is aimed at you. Now you say something? Fuck you, Moscow Mitch! It is shameful to repeatedly kill legislation aiming to protect our voting from the interference that we already know is happening. You want to lose the nickname? Then stop ensuring that Russia stays in our elections.


1 Aug 2019

22 July 2019

Stop Pretending You Are Being Patriotic

If you are currently saying, 
“If you don’t love this country, then leave,” 
you would have said it to:

Martin Luther King
Malcolm X
Susan B. Anthony
Alice Paul
Cesar Chavez
Angela Davis

James Baldwin
Medgar Evers
Thurgood Marshall
Gloria Steinem 

Fannie Lou Hamer
Ruth Bader Ginsburg 

Diane Nash
Baryard Rustin
Muhammad Ali 
and so many others 

Or, if you are old enough, 
maybe you already did


21 Jul 2019